For Him (2023) Episode 8

11 Comments to “For Him (2023) Episode 8”

1. Poor thing Blue, that was so tragic. Him was really suffering because of that.
   Of course Him blames himself for Blue’s death. No friends support at all. Glad that his mom helped him to understand that it was not his fault.

   Te is an evil “freind”.

   And more than half of the episode was given to other characters not to our main leads.

   PS. I missed their NC scenes 🤭🤭

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2. Plot Holes – they really skipped over Nail forgiving Him (first the bathroom fight, then Him’s talk with his mom so I was expecting some alone time with Him and Nail before the visit to his mom).

   What do we even do with this relationship?: I’m all for Phai establishing boundaries but he has a way of treating relationships that would make anyone fed up. He did it to Type and he’s doing it to Chao. Of course I don’t want Type with Phai especially since he can’t even admit that he and Phai are exes and that he’s messing with Nail (Phai’s friend). Phai isn’t obligated to do anything really as he and Chao are not together. Phai has established rules for their ‘relationship’ but agreements should be made on how both mutually feel about these arrangements and not one trying to ‘adapt’ themselves for the other. Phai isn’t ready for a relationship and Chao just wants to go full steam ahead. If they’re not on the same page anytime soon, Chao should walk away.

   Blue and Him
   Even if Blue’s parents being just awful weren’t part of the plot, no where did I ever think Him was to blame for what happened. Truthfully that txt msg tripped me up because the ‘ding’ from the notification made me think that Blue was alive. However one criticism from me is that they spent too much time making us believe that Blue fell apart because of his and Him’s relationship seemingly falling apart when it was later revealed that it’s all family pressure. Reiterating that I was all for Him prioritizing his mother during her illness but still stand by sending a quick text msg to Blue every now and then and not acting all angry when Blue visited at the restaurant. But still, it’s not Him’s fault.

   One way I would’ve portrayed this was either Him taking care of his mom, Blue wanting to be supportive and Blue’s parents being understanding about it. However, since this is a story about Blue spiralling and eventually completing s****** then we should have had Blue and Him understanding each other better while Him was taking care of his mom but Blue’s parents were horrible to their son and Blue didn’t want to bother Him with his troubles because Him was dealing with enough already.

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3. They knew that their son is gay since he was young. They were not supportive but threatened their child till he took his life. Too bad that the production doesn’t have the time and budget showing Blue’s parents lament their strict beliefs. 😥

   😅 We have two sets of love triangle. 🔻 🔻 😆

   🫦 I noticed that the end credit roll shows Nail pawing Him’s pec. 😅

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4. Quick comment then I’m out.
   Ahh Blue’s parents are the cause of is death. If Te wants to blame someone why don’t he look in the mirror. Maybe that’s part of his problem… he wants to put it all on Him because he’s suffering from guilt from not being able to help Blue. He could’ve/should’ve known what was up with Blue since he was so obsessed with him. Why didn’t he see the issues he was having and try and help him. 🙄

   Blue didn’t have the strength to stand up and stand on his own and tell his mom and dad to f**k the f**k off and get the hell outta there. Yet he suffered in silence and couldn’t cope and the only way out he saw to end his suffering was to end it. I wonder why he never told Him or even that POS Te what problems he was having at home. I don’t even know what to say about that cousin Type. Does he hate Him because Him’s family has means and his don’t. Is it jealousy ? Because he’s raging on now because Him won’t tell Chao to leave Pie alone and Him says he’s gonna stay out of it when it comes to him trying to get his ex back.
   What are Te and Type planning on doing to Nail?
   Ok that’s it for me see everyone tomorrow.

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5. Ok, whoever edited this episode – did a sloppy and poor job of it. Because they are MANY scenes that are missing from this episode, based on the scene cuts! Like the bathroom scene – how did ALL 3 of them get there?! Or the missing scene of reconciliation between Nail and Him…?

   Drama is also really not turning how to be how I imagine or THOUGHT it would have gone with the pretext of the previous 3 or so episodes… Because why are they letting my strong-willed, opinionated, flawed but independent characters [Nail, Chao, Him] be lead around by the nose by some A$$-wipes [Te, Type, and Phai (at this point)]?! Like HUH?! I thought we were having some character development – but the whole development thing went south, opposite of what the characters should have!!

   At this point, Chao/Jao – needs to distance himself. Not to give Type or Phai any satisfaction, but to reflect more on himself and do some self-care. Like HE [Chao/Jao] needs to know and realize that he DESERVES a lot better than what Phai is giving him. He needs to realize that he deserves to be LOVED/LIKED as well, and not just be the one that LOVES/LIKES. Maybe, distancing himself may let Phai know what he was missing!

   P.S. – The last scene… Him’s room better be in the West Wing of that huge house… Because I know there is no way they are about to get it on and do the horizontal, vertical tango in the parent’s house with a minor there!!! All I got to say is that – the soundproofing of the house better be SOLID to the T!

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6. I legit have no words.. i legit had to watch this in secret cause im working but MAN.

   Fuk Te nd FUK Blue’s parents. Ima leave the commenting to u guys.

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7. omfg what type of shitty parents did blue have wtf is wrong with them they’re the most hateful ppl in here homophobic mf bishes they can go to he** they’re the reason why he ki**ed himself and they dont feel any remorse at all they only care about themselves all those years how did he put up with them i would never be able to put up with them i despise their azzes so much i hate ppl like this 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿💔💔💔💔💔💔 my heart breaks for blue the pain im feeling i feel soo badd for him he doesn’t deserve parents like this they’re not even worthy of being called parents they don’t fking deserve that title i cant believe they’re even called parents 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿👿💔💔💔💔💔💔 blues so called parents can f the f off they can go d** in a d**** tey and teys cousin get the f out of here and leave them alone they can go f**** themselves the way i want throw blues parents in a freaking traffic jam out of their window te worst parents in here

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8. Am I missing something? I literally rewatched the last episode to check but something doesnt add up. Last episode had Nail finding out he looks like Him’s dead ex and then looks like they get back together at the end of last ep? but this episode starts with Nail Him and Te fighting in the bathroom?? And suddenly Nail is back with Him and even goes to see him mom? Sorry I like this show but i feel like im missing something here…

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9. Type really decided he’s going to be in two relationship plots (Chao x Phai and Him x Nail) and be a problem to both.

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10. The phrase I hate the most from parents I AM DOING THIS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

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11. January 19, 2024 (10:10 PM)
    ☑️For Him, Episode 8

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